On Saturday afternoon, Alex was laying on her bed texting Sophie on her phone. They had a very nice day today, first visiting their possible future apartment for the upcoming year, and then having a joint lunch with both their families. Alex wondered if this was how a family lunch was going to be in the future, once (technically if, but Alex had no doubts it was going to be a “once”) they get married. That reminded Alex that before they could get married, they needed to sort out all the paperwork regarding her legal transition, which was still a headache for her… Also, while she was excited about wearing a pretty wedding dress, she was a bit sad she could not have a big religious wedding like her grandma would have wanted, but its not like it was her fault their religion did not allow for lesbian weddings, not that she cared further than that about it.
Alex noticed her phone light up again from an incoming message, and snapped out of her thoughts to go back to her conversation with Sophie.
Sophie <3
sad that the second house had the safety problem,
but I’m not sure how many people would actually
rent it like that. Anyway, I agree that we should go
for the third one, my princess <3
Yay! We are close to having our own lovers nest! ><
We should tell our parents and contact the agency on
Monday, paperwork always ends up taking a while…
Ugh, don’t remind me, paperwork is the worst :(
The enrollment process is getting soooo long for meee
And I cannot compare with Ms Smartypants here because
she enters through a special process T.T
Talking about paperwork… I was thinking
Just realized something
wait, sorry, you were going to say smth
No, no, go first, mine was dumb anyway
Don’t say that! ‘^’
But fine
I realized that the landlord seems really nice, but he also
seems quite nosy…
And that would be a problem for us, specially you :(
I mean, it’s not like I would expect him to enter without
permission or anything else illegal, but… you know :/
Wow, I… nevr considered that :(
We will have to see when the time comes, but we’ll
eventually figure smth out, dear :) And thanks for
worrying bout me so much! ><
Come on, of course I do! I’m protecting my princess xP
And I agree about what you say of waiting and seeing
Anyway, what was your thing? 00
Oh, right, I was thinking that we need to start trying
to figure out the paperwork for my legal gender
change, specially if we want to be together in the
dorms second year
And also, well…
If we intend to marry ><
OMG Alex! ><
You say it so cute <3
But yes, we should at least look at it, but you know
that until your parents know we cannot go about doing this…
Yeah, for what I’ve seen on the internet, the
medical step seems impossible to avoid…
Also, we need a way to fake it for the system :/
Yup, another thing to the pile of “worries for later” :/
Talking about telling people…
Yesterday I went to have lunch at Aiden’s restaurant
Which is very nice, we could try some day 00
Sure! I’m sure he’ll love us getting lovey-dovey xD
And I decided I want him to know
I know telling our friends is a big step, but we know
each other since we were literally children, and I
really trust him
And I want him to be the first to know
WOW, I was not expecting this so soon
But if you are sure, I will support you ^^
How do you want to do this? Do you want me to
be there?
Yes!
I know that my powers (?) are not really related
to being trans, but I want to tell him the full story :)
But I’m still not sure how to do this
We need to be alone with him, little chance of someone
actually running into us mid-process
My only idea was to do it this Monday, since
the restaurant is closed and we could meet
anytime in the day instead of just in
the afternoon
Hmm, you are who knows him best, but I’ll try
to have some ideas for tomorrow when you come,
maybe they could inspire you
You are very brave, princess <3<3<3
Ok, tomorrow we will continue then, thanks! ^^
OMG Sophieeeee ><><><
With that, Alex turned off the phone screen, blushing from her girlfriend’s last message. Before going to sleep, she decided to take a final look at the legal documents for her transition (thankfully, she would not need to be in the list for any surgery or sperm preservation, which would complicate the issue quite a bit, but the medical following does require periodic bloodtests…). She needed to change her name, which was going to be minimal from Alex(ander) to Alex(andra), and only required her to go to the courts and ask for it in front of a judge. While terrifying, this step seemed easy on its own. Problem was, she needed to prove two full years of hormone treatment to get the gender marker changed on her legal records… or the full surgery. She got sad knowing that this most likely meant they would not be able to be together in the dorms until their third year, but such were the laws of her country… She then went to sleep, feeling disappointed about the situation, but it’s not like there was anything she could do about it...
to sleep, he decided
Wrong pronoun
Thanks for noticing!
i hope eventually they can kiss and not have her s*x changed... Would be so sad if she had to magic her body to her male one during their wedding at some point... And overall it would be sad for their romance, no kissing unless Alex feels dysphoria until they kiss again... -_-'
Remind me again why she can't just have her girlfriend kiss her in front of the judge? If she has to supply blood samples then she has to prove it's a magical gender change because the blood will show she's a 100% biological female, a scientific impossibility when transitioning. The person analyzing the blood will conclude the blood test was faked and her application for a legal change of gender will be rejected.
That's not how blood analysis is done or how biological s*x is determined. The labwork would usually just show the levels of testosterone and estrogen, which would be in the same expected levels as if she was on HRT. Chromosome tests are usually not done for trans people and are also unreliable since there's like a hundred different combinations besides XX and XY (these are just the most common ones) and not all relate to s*x and none to gender.
@Lizzie Oh, thought I heard somewhere that blood analysis contained gender info. Sorry for the confusion.